2002 baby

When you were a baby, I would hold you long after you were done feeding.

I loved to hold you, and would just stare at you.

Then you grew a little taller, and you had no time for me to just hold you,

you were a joyful baby, talking, laughing, playing with your older brother.

Then you became a preschooler and were so interested in the things and people around you.  You loved birthday parties, even from the very start, wanting to stay longer and make sure we got all the parts, the cake, the presents, the games.

And then school. You loved being with the other kids, loved the structure, loved the smell of the pencils and paper and books and school parties.

We then homeschooled and it was disappointing to you

you made the best of it, though, striving to excel through your daily work

and then the ballet and gymnastics, tumbling, youth group

the singing lessons and acting school, cheerleading

the friends and playdates and swimming and long summer days

Things changed for us when we moved.

You started high school and were ready to take it on

senate, and cheer, and honors classes

dances and games and proms

friends and new friends, jobs and outings

volunteering

you filled your days with self discovery

I know there are hurts and pain you keep from me

I know the years were not easy on you

but you made the best of it

you went to Panama

and now your senior year,

the last months that are supposed to be filled

with shopping for prom dresses and laughter’

looking forward to final high school days with friends

instead, we wait

we see our community get shut down

we hear about sickness and death

and it is scary and sad and uncertain.

Here is what I know

the baby that I held almost 18 years ago

has come so far, learning so much, being so much

loving so much, some because of me, some in spite of me

You have made a beautiful life

and although this part does not make sense and is unfair,

here is what I know

you will make it beautiful and full of love

and something that is just your own

you will share your goodness and your story

and we will all be better for it

I am sad and happy and proud and expectant

of this wonderful life you will make

 

 

 

 

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